Romance and “new friend” scams

Someone you meet online — on Facebook, a dating site or even a wrong-number text — builds a warm relationship over weeks, then needs money for an emergency, a trip to see you, customs fees or an “investment”.

How it works

They often say they’re overseas: military, an oil rig, a doctor abroad.
They avoid video calls or meeting in person.
The requests start small and grow. Later they may push crypto “investments”.

Warning signs

You’ve never met in person or on a live video call
Stories of being stuck abroad
Requests for money, gift cards or crypto
Asking you to keep the relationship private

What to do

Never send money to someone you haven’t met in person.
Talk about the relationship with a family member or friend.
Search their photos online — scammers often use stolen pictures.

What it can look like

My darling, I miss you so much. I am still on the oil rig and my account is frozen. I need $2,500 for the customs fee so I can finally come to see you. Please send it by Bitcoin ATM, I will pay you back as soon as I land my love.

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